{"id":22439,"date":"2016-01-21T14:55:55","date_gmt":"2016-01-21T13:55:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maihua.fr\/en\/?p=22439"},"modified":"2016-09-09T11:14:52","modified_gmt":"2016-09-09T10:14:52","slug":"about-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/en\/2016\/01\/about-intimacy\/","title":{"rendered":"About Intimacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was talking to a friend the other day about the evolution of the blog, about what this movie process makes me endure (nothing too heavy) (it\u2019s just that the process is long and as soon as I integrate the time as an essential factor of the creative process)<\/p>\n<p>About everything that it evokes, intimate thoughts, and I hope it is universal for all of you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe must send you a book then.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbout intimacy &#8211; Far from the Noisy Love\u201d has been eye opening for me.\u00a0 First, reading it was incredible but then, this philosophical publication allowed me to put words on things that I have crossed my mind but that I was unable to apprehend.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19217\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-2-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So what is intimacy?\u00a0 This thing so difficult to conceptualize because precisely it isn\u2019t \u201ca thought.\u201d\u00a0 Intimacy isn\u2019t a physical thing which normally isn\u2019t showable or describable in the moral meaning of the word, it\u2019s because I am showing you my breasts (NAH BUT HOW HAVE I NOT EVER SHOWED YOU MY BOOBS!!!!) that I am talking about intimacy, it isn\u2019t either because a celebrity is opening up her \u201chome\u201d in a magazine that she is sharing her real intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Intimacy is not a physical thing, it\u2019s about what\u2019s inside\u2026 the interior (Francois Julien notes furthermore that in opposition there is not more on the exterior than the exterior).\u00a0 Which I understand, that there is an inner space deep inside us, and this space exists whatever happens, and it\u2019s up to each of us to go and explore it.\u00a0 Or not.\u00a0 Naturally this speaks to me greatly!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Because intimacy is not gentle or soft.\u00a0 It\u2019s wonderful and violent at the same time.\u00a0 This is why many make the choice, consciously or not, to never venture going.\u00a0 \u201cOne must dare intimacy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19219\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-4-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Last week, I did a post on the sublime Elsa, and while researching the last Beauty Portrait I directed, I tracked down Mathilde\u2026 1 year and 3 months earlier!\u00a0 On my Facebook page, someone gasped out \u201cfinally!\u00a0 I rediscovered the Timai of the beginning\u201d but to be honest, no, I am not the Timai of the beginning!\u00a0 Hahahahaha, because this blog has allowed me unconsciously to move from Beauty Portrait to seeking for intimacy (which can be seen within the evolution of the tips as well).<\/p>\n<p>And to share it with all of you!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19218\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-3-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Also because the 2<sup>nd<\/sup> face of intimacy, when used as an adjective \u2013 we are \u201cintimate\u201d \u2013 there is the notion of the other, the Other, and this space right here \u201cbetween you and I\u201d is exactly the adventure that I am risking here.\u00a0 Sometimes I may even find myself lost\u2026. BUT I AM ENTITLED TO IT!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>SHIT!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19222\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-7-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And every so often, the more intimacy, the more sharing, the more intimacy shared, the more my personal intimate space (mental, emotional, etc.) finds itself overwhelmed, and therefore growing.\u00a0 I was never interested by the blogging phenomenon.\u00a0 I found it interesting but I wasn\u2019t drawn to it.\u00a0 Yet frankly after this reading, something opened up, and I find being a blogger to be very beautiful.\u00a0 To talk about intimacy without aiming for benefit, in any case not to own you; and it\u2019s right then that sharing happens and not to show off, seeking validation, to seduce\u2026 to just share, just together.\u00a0 Because then there is a genesis of \u201cawareness.\u201d\u00a0 I LOVE IT!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19220\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-5-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Yes, it appears that the blog deals back intimacy cards, and that contrary to all beliefs, from what I hear within the echo of your feedback, the blogs, without taking a seat of intimacy which does not exist (I am not your girlfriend, I am not your mother, I am not playing with your kiddos) well, the blogs, not mine but blogs in general, know how to create intimacy.\u00a0 An intimate space which we may not have known prior.\u00a0 And isn\u2019t this freaking genius?!!!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-19221\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600.jpg\" alt=\"Iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/iintime-fracois-jullien-6-mai-hua-600-140x80.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Timing could not have been any better, so good that this discovery allowed me to turn a new page on this blog, because it\u2019s the last post published on superbytimai, which you have known for 5 years.\u00a0 Say goodbye this weekend because Monday will be another day!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I kiss you on both cheeks.\u00a0 Thank you Jean for this gem.\u00a0 &lt;3<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"mai hua fran\u00e7ois jullien\" href=\"http:\/\/livre.fnac.com\/a5190166\/Francois-Jullien-De-l-intime\" target=\"_blank\">De l&#8217;Intime, Loin du Bruyant Amour<\/a>, de Fran\u00e7ois Jullien<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was talking to a friend the other day about the evolution of the blog, about what this movie process makes me endure (nothing too heavy) (it\u2019s just that the process is long and as soon as I integrate the time as an essential factor of the creative process) About everything that it evokes, intimate &hellip; 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