{"id":26028,"date":"2018-03-20T15:42:37","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T14:42:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.maihua.fr\/en\/?p=26028"},"modified":"2019-01-29T09:26:09","modified_gmt":"2019-01-29T08:26:09","slug":"tam-12-y-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/en\/2018\/03\/tam-12-y-o\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e2m, 12 y-o"},"content":{"rendered":"

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each year, it is the same feeling, the same emotion. to see my child grow up is a both a soft sorrow, and an immense bliss.<\/p>\n

at the beginning of the year, the head of her school told us (us parents) quite clearly : “regarding my positon, I should not tell you that but the year of 5e (for 11-12 yo children in France) is not very important on an academic level. on a psychological aspect though… wahou! many of our children will encounter deep changes, amongst which chose their friends as their new reference group. some diner at home will be tougher! but shall we go on help them into this path, and keep on communicating with them and together, with benevolence.”<\/p>\n

so, indeed, the perspective to see my girl go makes me cry in advance, but I must admit, i feel great at the same time to push her for always more autonomy and… crazyness too!<\/p>\n

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tres fi\u00e8re de ma T\u00e2m qui a choisi Chihiro pour un expos\u00e9 sur les \u201ch\u00e9ros\u201d. apr\u00e8s avoir revu le film ensemble samedi, elle me dit \u201cen fait chihiro m\u2019\u00e9pate parce qu\u2019elle d\u00e9passe ses peurs alors tout fait peur (ses parents en cochons, l\u2019esprit putride, la descente de l\u2019escalier, baba yaga!) et puis elle sait dire non (au sans-visage) mais avec bienveillance. les h\u00e9ros sont toujours des hommes muscl\u00e9s qui remplissent leur devoir en sauvant le monde. la elle n\u2019est pas reine du monde mais reine de \u201celle-meme\u201d\u201d et d\u2019encha\u00eener sur cette peinture. euh… je suis fi\u00e8re de mon fils aussi qui s\u2019est bien fait chahuter hier en classe et qui va ouvrir son c\u0153ur ce matin en mode \u201ccommunication non-violente\u201d pour leur dire qui il est, ce qu\u2019il a ressenti et ce dont il a besoin. vuln\u00e9rable mais debout, allez go go go! love mes enfants, gros gros love<\/a><\/p>\n

Une publication partag\u00e9e par Mai Hua<\/a> (@mai_hua) le