{"id":10593,"date":"2013-10-22T07:00:04","date_gmt":"2013-10-22T06:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.superbytimai.com\/?p=10593"},"modified":"2016-01-08T18:21:34","modified_gmt":"2016-01-08T17:21:34","slug":"up-to-independance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/2013\/10\/up-to-independance\/","title":{"rendered":"Up to Independence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/instagram.com\/p\/fujvzXQoug\/embed\/\" width=\"600\" height=\"697\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>jeunes tigres gravissant la montagne<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nous rentrons tout juste d&#8217;un weekend merveilleux \u00e0 Marseille. Finalement, je me rends compte que c&#8217;est la premi\u00e8re fois que je pars seule avec mes enfants. En les regardant <del datetime=\"2013-10-21T22:22:11+00:00\">me mettre la dose<\/del> crapahuter devant moi tout le temps, ici dans les pierres blanches de l&#8217;ile du Frioul, je me suis dit : &#8220;tiens on a pass\u00e9 un step l\u00e0.&#8221; mon fr\u00e8re me r\u00e9pondrait &#8220;tu dis toujours qu&#8217;ils ont pass\u00e9 un step l\u00e0&#8221; et&#8230; c&#8217;est pas faux!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9728.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10595 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_9728\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9728.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>mais l\u00e0 c&#8217;est diff\u00e9rent (&#8220;tu dis toujours que c&#8217;est diff\u00e9rent&#8221;). En fait, je me suis rappel\u00e9e de cette pens\u00e9e que j&#8217;avais eu il y a 2 ans et demi d\u00e9j\u00e0 sur le fait d&#8217;aimer ses enfants &#8220;de si pr\u00e8s&#8221; (<a title=\"superFlou\" href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/2011\/05\/18\/cannes-day-7-flou\/\" target=\"_blank\">ici<\/a>) et je me suis dit : &#8220;les voil\u00e0 maintenant tellement loin. il va falloir les laisser partir.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9889.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10599 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_9889\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9889.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>J&#8217;avais d\u00e9j\u00e0 \u00e9voqu\u00e9 les questions soulev\u00e9es par la maternit\u00e9, ou plut\u00f4t la parentalit\u00e9 (<a title=\"superMome\" href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/2012\/11\/20\/mome\/\" target=\"_blank\">ici<\/a>) mais ce que je n&#8217;avais pas dit c&#8217;est \u00e0 quel point je trouve \u00e7a difficile. les meuffes et les mecs qui n&#8217;en avez pas, oubliez ce que je viens d&#8217;\u00e9crire, okay? les gosses c&#8217;est la merveille!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9900.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10600 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_9900\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9900.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"445\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>LA MER-VEIL-LEU! mais voil\u00e0, \u00e7a m&#8217;oblige \u00e0 r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 tellement de questions, \u00e0 m&#8217;adapter \u00e0 tellement de situations, \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre tellement d&#8217;\u00e9nigmes, \u00e0 d\u00e9velopper tellement d&#8217;abn\u00e9gation, tellement de compassion. putain mais quel taffe! je douille sa m\u00e8re. Par exemple, je viens seulement de comprendre que mes enfants n&#8217;\u00e9taient pas de simples extensions de moi&#8230; HAHAHAHAHA! wo pitaing le niveau d&#8217;inconscient. <a title=\"superInconscient\" href=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_lvi2yxgMUF1qzjix8.gif\" target=\"_blank\">parfois je veux m\u00eame pas savoir <\/a>tellement ce qui s&#8217;ouvre sous mes pieds est abyssal.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9933.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10603 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_9933\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9933.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>mais en fait si, il faut savoir. aller comprendre. gratter. pfff. et en plus, d&#8217;apr\u00e8s ce qu&#8217;on m&#8217;a dit, on reste parents toute sa vie. (d&#8217;ailleurs, je vois comment les miens morfflent encore parfois&#8230;). Et puis voil\u00e0, parfois, c&#8217;est juste bien, on passe 3 jours de r\u00e9galade comme \u00e7a, tous les 3, \u00e0 rire comme des baleines, et c&#8217;est le paradis. \u00e7a m&#8217;a fait un bien&#8230; vous pouvez pas savoir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9720.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10596 aligncenter\" title=\"IMG_9720\" src=\"http:\/\/maihua.fr\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/IMG_9720.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>mes ch\u00e9ris&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Allez, tr\u00e8s belle semaine les cocos doux!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>jeunes tigres gravissant la montagne Nous rentrons tout juste d&#8217;un weekend merveilleux \u00e0 Marseille. Finalement, je me rends compte que c&#8217;est la premi\u00e8re fois que je pars seule avec mes enfants. En les regardant me mettre la dose crapahuter devant moi tout le temps, ici dans les pierres blanches de l&#8217;ile du Frioul, je me &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/2013\/10\/up-to-independance\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Up to Independence<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16679,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,5,8],"tags":[698,999,1018,699,891],"class_list":["post-10593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-amour","category-diary","category-mon-chemin","tag-ile-du-frioul","tag-la-famille","tag-leo","tag-marseille","tag-tam"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10593"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10593\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18327,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10593\/revisions\/18327"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archives.maihua.fr\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}